對王薀老師與其學員的不公描繪

我的親身經歷
我以前是佛教老師王薀的學生。最近,由於兩起法院案件,他受到了媒體的高度關注。

2015年我離開了該團體,自那時起,我僅以非正式的方式參加線上課程,並與團體成員保持著鬆散的聯繫。這篇文章百分之百是我個人觀點,團體中沒有任何人以任何方式要求我給予支持。

媒體報導與我所認識的老師之間的落差
王薀老師以及團體中的其他學員一直以來都以尊重和友善對待我。雖然我無法確鑿地對案件的具體細節發表評論,但我可以說,媒體上的故事和指控與我所了解的王薀及該團體並不相符。王薀是一位學識淵博得令人驚歎的人,他的佛教教導非常著重於慈悲與善意。多份媒體報導宣稱,王薀對蔡女士懷恨在心,因為她讓他損失了大筆金錢,且他下令定期對她進行懲罰並扣留其資金。這與我所認識的老師不符。王薀嚴格避免將佛教作為賺錢的工具。團體中的所有資金均來自符合個人經濟能力的自願捐贈。有些人什麼都沒給,王薀依然很樂意教導他們。我從未見過經濟脅迫。

懺悔與因果
王薀經常建議人們進行懺悔修行,但這些並非出於怨恨的懲罰。在藏傳傳統中,有許多修行方式可能看起來很奇怪甚至殘忍,但如果老師或指導者的意圖是正確的,那麼其目的往往是為了清除個人的惡業並幫助他們淨化。這些絕非旨在傷害個人,其設計初衷是為了令人獲益。人們可以說,佛教中最重大的戒律就是「不傷害」。在我待在團體的這段時間裡,我看到許多人在修行,有時彼此鼓勵,但我從未見過任何人出於惡意而蓄意試圖傷害他人。媒體上關於毆打等報導與指控,與我所知道的該團體情況並不相符。

蔡女士當時身體不適,但對於普通人來說,僅憑外表很難診斷出橫紋肌溶解症。被告還主張,當王薀離開現場時,她已經重新站立起來了。我所認識的老師絕不會留下迫切需要幫助的人。我經常看到他熬夜到凌晨,以各種方式幫助人們。人們可以說他們當時應該立即打電話叫救護車,應該展現出更多的慈悲,但在我看來,蓄意傷害的想法與王薀的教導或現有證據並不相符。好像媒體和別人極有可能將點連成線,繪製出了一個比實際情況要戲劇化且陰暗得多的畫面,然後不斷推廣這種說法。

被控制的感覺
我相信圍繞這些案件的大量負面新聞,源於昔日學生心理上產生的被控制感。作為一名曾經的學生,我也經歷過這種感覺。這時,人們很容易將此歸咎於老師或教條,直到你意識到,實際上是你自己在給自己施加壓力,然後為此指責他人。對一個人的尊重會賦予其言語份量,而這增加了壓力。但除非存在身體上的脅迫,否則這種壓力完全是自我產生的。在我和團體相處的所有歲月中,我經常看到王薀吩咐人們做事,但從未動用過武力。王薀以開放和包容對待我們,我們所有人都可以隨時自由離開。我曾聽說第二起法院案件所圍繞的蔣姓女士,曾多次被建議離開並回到家人身邊,但她拒絕離開。我無法證實這是否屬實,也無法對此案作明確評論,但除非在我離開期間他們的方法有所改變,否則我深信她隨時都可以自由離開,只是感到有壓力而選擇留下來。如果是這樣,我對她表示同情。每一位心靈導師都需要意識到這種內心壓力感會有多強大、多具控制力。

當我離開團體時,心理上極為艱難。但在我旅居遠方後,沒有人試圖脅迫我返回、付款或做任何事。多年後,我重新加入了團體的線上課程,因為我相信古老的佛陀智慧在我們現代社會中具有更大的價值。因此,我相信王薀和一些其他的精神導師扮演著非常重要的角色。

我相信除了國家的法律之外,任何團體都有兩條黃金法則,且應該從一開始就向所有成員明確說明:

  1. 不傷害(Ahimsa):團體中的人必須遵守不傷害的原則。
  2. 離開的自由:每個人都應該感到如果他們想離開,就能夠離開。

這些黃金原則有助於確保虔誠的美麗與力量保持安全。當我在王薀的團體時,這兩項原則都依然存在。

權力問題
如果過多的權力和權威掌握在一個人手中,可能會變得不安全。那個人可能會失去做出明智判斷的能力,或者將自己的利益置於他人之上,從而引發問題。因此,我相信對於像王薀這樣具有明確等級制度的團體或傳統,許多人天生就抱有不信任和憂慮。如果發生了糟糕的事情,這種偏見會使我們以證明自己不信任為合理的方式來看待事物。但就我個人而言,我從未見過王薀為了個人利益而濫用權力。舉例來說,在2015年我離開團體時,我向他提供了一筆錢作為感謝,但他拒絕了。

媒體的責任
我覺得媒體未能協助營造一個客觀公正的局面。媒體靠聳人聽聞和爭議生存,並藉此製造出比實際情況要黑暗和戲劇化得多的標題與故事。在利用不和與不平靜獲利的同時,他們進一步加深了這種不和與不平靜。媒體承擔著巨大的責任。我相信閱讀《五戒十善》對媒體從業者將有極大的價值。從佛教的角度來看,如果他們能夠以客觀公正的方式呈現事實,同時鼓勵和諧、和平關係並建立信任,他們就能創造善業。如果他們為了戲劇化而歪曲事實並製造不信任,由此產生的業報將是不可勝言的。拋開佛教概念不談,言論自由是來之不易且寶貴的東西,濫用它,你可能會失去它。你擁有的自由越多,你就越需要自律。

媒體的負面偏見如此之強,以至於對該團體所做的各種好事幾乎隻字未提。在王薀的指導下,團體為長者和有需要的人送便當並陪伴他們、清理海灘、放生等等。王薀多年來一直保持低調,但對佛教和社會做出了真正深遠的貢獻。他就像一股地下溪流,滋養著青草。看清出錯的事情,總比看清所有正確的事情要容易得多。

我已將此文發送給各大媒體。任何展示這篇文章的媒體、報紙或網站,藉此也展示了其能夠坦然包容其他聲音和觀點,這是一種寶貴的力量。

蔡女士
蔡女士是一位非常優秀的學員,充滿活力與善意,受到社群中許多人的喜愛和尊重。她勤奮、開朗、友善、虔誠,對修行充滿熱情,大家將會非常懷念她!我也相信,如果她看到自己的老師和同學受到這樣的對待,可能會感到震驚。我祈禱她身處於一個清淨吉祥的地方,並能繼續她精力充沛的修行。我祝願她的家人一切順利,並希望他們能透過平靜的反思,將悲傷轉化為美好的事物。

結語
我誠摯地承諾,該團體中的任何人都没有要求我寫這篇文章,也没有在寫作過程中以任何方式提供協助。本文僅表達我個人的經歷與觀點。我無法對他人的經歷發表評論,也不是在說完全沒有任何過錯,只是需要無歪曲、無偏見地呈現證據,以營造一個客觀公正的局面,兼聽則明偏信則暗。我尊重法院審查證據並依法作出裁決的需要。我的目的是提供我個人的視角,而不是聲稱我了解所有的事實。祈禱這種情況能夠盡可能平穩、和平與公正地得到解決。

Mandarin Translation made with help from Google Gemini
在 Google Gemini 協助下完成的中文翻譯

英文版請點這裡 For English version click HERE

欲了解更多關於媒體報導與現實落差的資訊,請參見:
https://leho.com.tw/archives/344685?utm_source=gemini

有智慧的英文名言WISE Quotes中英

智慧是最好的禮物
Wisdom makes a better present

這裡是我認為歷來最實用又特別的一些英文名言。這個集合很特別,因為每句話的想法彼此連貫,幾乎可以當作一篇完整的文章來閱讀。最初,它是我為年輕英文學習者寫的一些簡單生活建議,搭配一些相關的名言。多年來,我慢慢加入更多的名言,也刪掉了一些寫得不太好的內容。
Here are what I believe to be some of the most helpful and special quotes of all time. This collection is unique because it can almost be read as a single flowing text owing to the interconnectedness of the ideas. This collection started as a series of simple life guidelines I wrote for young English learners interspersed with related quotes. Over the years more and more quotes were added and much of my own slightly shoddy writing discarded.

老師們請注意! 在課堂上分享一句和主題有關的名言,是一個有趣的方式來引起討論,也能讓學生開始思考。
Attention teachers! Sharing a relevant topic related quote in class can be a really interesting way to start discussions and get learners thinking.

我發現這些名言很適合拿來當英文課的補充教材。我也會記錄和每個班分享過哪些名言,這樣就能為不同班級設計專屬的名言清單,也能進行有趣的複習活動。這些名言也可以用在「智慧卡片」活動中。
I have found these quotes ideal for English classes and I keep a record of what quotes I have shared with what classes so that I can make class specific quotes lists and we can have fun review sessions. These quotes can also be used as part of the ‘Wisdom Cards‘ idea.

下載 PDF
Download PDF

W.I.S.E 學英文的智慧)精選名言短版(如上)
W.I.S.E (Wisdom In Studying English) Helpful Quotes & Sayings Short version (as above)

W.I.S.E(學英文的智慧)Peacemakerfoundation.com 中版
W.I.S.E (Wisdom In Studying English) for Peacemakerfoundation.com Medium Version 
(包含來自 Peacemaker Foundation 的一些名言)
(Includes some quotes from the Peacemaker Foundation)

W.I.S.E(學英文的智慧)Peacemakerfoundation.com 長版
W.I.S.E (Wisdom In Studying English) for Peacemakerfoundation.com Long Version 
(包含作者用簡單文字寫的名言、說明與建議,適合英文初學者與兒童)
(Includes quotes & advice or explanations from the author written in simple language, suitable for some beginner level English language learners and children)

英文版請點這裡 For English version click HERE

 

五戒十善 Five Precepts & Ten Good deeds (中英)

佛教傳統中的五戒與十善業道的圖像式整理。這份資料尚未經過具資格的老師審核,內容是根據我個人的粗淺理解以及部分網路資料整理而成。 如果您發現有任何錯誤,歡迎指正。希望這對您有所幫助!

A visual summary of the five precepts and ten good deeds in the Buddhist tradition. This has not yet been checked by a qualified teacher and is based on my own limited understanding and some online research. If you see any mistakes feel free to let me know. Hope it helps!

使用 SimpleMind 應用程式製作
Made using the SimpleMind app

我的十善總結嘗試如下:
愛護一切眾生(救生),樂於布施(布施),守戒自律(梵行),誠實不欺(誠實),促進和平與和諧(調和語),言語慈善(柔軟語或愛軟語),說話坦誠且有意義(質直語),保持無執著(清淨),行為和善慈悲(慈悲),保持清明與智慧(正見)。

My attempt at summarizing the 10 good deeds:
Love & protect all living beings, give generously, maintain discipline & self control, be truthful, promote peace & togetherness, speak kindly, speak plainly & about meaningful things, maintain non-attachment, be peaceful & compassionate, maintain clarity & wisdom.  

OLD & INCOMPLETE 智慧的言語

對不起, 還沒翻譯好.

這些英文的言語適合上課用, 特別是英文課因為老師可以挑選課內容相關的言語. 言語都可以做成”智慧卡“.

Wisdom makes a better present

Here are what I believe to be some of the most helpful and special quotes of all time. This collection is unique because it can almost be read as a single flowing text owing to the interconnectedness of the ideas. This collection started as a series of simple life guidelines I wrote for young English learners interspersed with related quotes. Over the years more and more quotes were added and much of my own slightly shoddy writing discarded.

Attention teachers! Sharing a relevant topic related quote in class can be a really interesting way to start discussions and get learners thinking.

I have found these quotes ideal for English classes and I keep a record of what quotes I have shared with what classes so that I can make class specific quotes lists and we can have fun review sessions. These quotes can also be used as part of the ‘Wisdom Cards‘ idea.

下載 PDF

W.I.S.E (Wisdom In Studying English) Helpful Quotes & Sayings Short Version (as above)

W.I.S.E (Wisdom In Studying English) for Peacemakerfoundation.com Medium Version (Includes some quotes from the author)

W.I.S.E (Wisdom In Studying English) for Peacemakerfoundation.com Longer Version (Includes quotes and simple explanations or advice from the author. Possibly suitable for some beginner level English language learners and children.)

 

(舊文)促進心理健康的圖片 OLD POST Mind Health Pictures (needs translating)

這是我的可愛的、可笑的嘗試用圖案來象徵一些我覺得是有價值的想法為了幫助人家達到心裡平靜。

對不起,還沒翻譯好.
This post is a cute and pitiful attempt at helping people to make a foundation of peace in their minds, through visual representations of certain ideas I regard as beneficial.

The Logo Explained

It’s true, I love Buddhism, however, I promise that this website is not an attempt to convert anyone to any religion: the image just shows what I believe our real underlying goals are in life. I was in a post office in Taipei on ‘Heping Rd’ (Peace Rd) when I realised (or came to believe) that without exception everything anyone has ever done was in order to experience one, some or all of the following: health, peace, love and happiness. There are no exceptions: even when it seemed like you wanted the very opposite of these things in fact you were secretly trying to get to at least one of them. A thing most people call a ‘good deed’ is something that increases these things for others. Paradoxically we don’t achieve these states in the long term by grasping for them too directly.  Perhaps the best approach is actually by just trying to help others to achieve them. Because all are actually states of the mind (health is mental and physical), they need not be dependent on external conditions and therefore can be ever present if you are. So in fact you don’t need the latest phone or tablet or car to be happy. You don’t need to worry too much about how you look to others, because in fact none of that superficial stuff relates directly to what really matters.

Health Peace Love Happiness

The body represents physical health, the glowing head represents mental health, the sea is peace, the heart is love and the sunshine is happiness. The flower is erm…wisdom opening up… alright, alright I haven’t figured that one out yet, it was just added on because it looked nice.

孔子教的懺悔:不二過

這圖的目標是回答我們生活上面的一個重大的問題, 就是「如何從過去學到智慧,同時活在當下?」 保持清楚的心,不用追求太多念頭,用誠心從現在開始做得更好。 當下好好做,過去錯可補過。

Confucian Repentance: No Second Pass
(perhaps meaning to not let it come to pass a second time)

A visual answer to the great question of how we can learn from the past but also be present. By being clear without excessive thinking, & resolving sincerely to do better from now on. You can always make up for a mistake in the last moment by doing better in this moment.
Live & Learn, Confucian repentance, Only way is up, recovery, presence, procreate picture, ipad artwork

面轉看太陽,讓陰影落後 (新西蘭原住民的俗話)

“Turn your face toward the sun and let the shadows fall behind you.” (Maori Proverb)

我們會翻譯下面的文字

Be Clear About What You’re Doing & Do Meaningful Things

awareness + helpfulness, iPad picture, Procreate

This is, in my opinion, a brilliant guiding principle. Many people live in a cage of unnecessary rules and many seem to have far too few guiding principles at all. If you just try to be aware (conscious of what you’re doing) and do meaningful (helpful or productive) things then for some this can make life much more enjoyable and productive.

Example:

You promised to do the washing up but an old friend you really like whom you haven’t seen in ages comes round.

Too few rules: You go off with your friend for hours and hours and forget about the washing up.

Too many rules: You tell your friend to go away because you have to do the washing up right now.

Aware + meaningful things: You welcome your friend inside (making people feel valuable is highly meaningful). You check to see if the washing up can be done later. If so, you enjoy being with your friend and when they leave you’re clear that you need to do the washing up.

Here are some more examples:

Too few rules: 

You lounge around in front of the TV all day most days, with no idea what you will watch or what you’re really doing.

You often don’t get the work done you should have done and go out drifting around not doing much useful.

Too many rules:

You would really enjoy watching TV but never do because you see it as a distraction.

You forbid yourself from ever going out and keep yourself at your desk and work.

Aware + doing meaningful things

There are some shows which you really enjoy or which give you lots of knowledge, you know when they’re on, you watch them and then turn off the TV and do other stuff.

You often work well with focus and once you’re finished you go out. When you’re out you do fun or useful things. Sometimes when you’re working you feel like going out for a walk, so you head off to a cafe with your notebook and keep working. When you catch yourself daydreaming for too long you bring your focus back to the work.

Mind Health Texts for English Class

‘Everyday Think as You Wake Up’ + ‘Everyone’s a VIP’ + Quizlet (The above text)

‘Everyday Think as You Wake Up’ + Quizlet (beginner to intemediate)

The Greatest Achievement is Selflessness + Quizlet

The Pursuit of Happiness + Tablearning technique (advanced)

Mindmap to go with the article

The Pursuit of Happiness (Mindmap of article)

Pandas are why Taipei is Happy + Quizlet
Supplementary material for ‘Pandas are why Taipei is Happy’ (World Rankings for Quality of Life)

Comparing Income with Peers Causes Unhappiness (created by Rob at Davids English)

Lost Spanish Lotto Ticket Handed in to Clear Conscience + Quizlet